What would “falling out of love” be categorized as for a reason for divorce. We've been married for almost 8 years now, and I'm just tired of the arguing, lack of affection, communication is horrible, it's just bad. We've done counseling, church groups, individual therapy. Anyone else experience this? I think my only answer is divorce and I'm Ok with that.

Mak3 W 2 likes

This is my experience. I was married once before. Fell in love quickly got pregnant got married fast. Thought I love him. That I was in love with him. Things you said in your post happened. I left him. Realized when I met my now husband Thst it wasn't Love. It was infatuation. When I met my now hubby I made the choice to love him no matter what. We struggled for the first 6 years of our marriage with all you described But I made the choice to love no matter what. We finally made it out of all

Mak3 W 1 like

All that stuff. I ended up going to a therapist for myself. Which really helped me work on myself. Which in turn helped make our marriage better. Just my experience.

Brita H 2 likes

Would that fall under “Irreconcilable Differences”?

SSZ 1 like

You tried and that's a plus

Cita M 1 like

You have tried everything, now it's Time to be set free. God closes a door to open another one even better than u can imagine.

Lucy M 1 like

Following. I'm in the same boat

Mama O 0 likes

Lucy Mama really? I think we started on this app around the same time. My son is 7 and my daughter will be 4. Im sorry to hear you're going through it too. I've decided my happiness outweighs whatever the cost is going to be.

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