Not baby related or anything. My husband has been working so much the last couple of weeks I feel like I haven't seen him at all. I MISS him. When he is awake he's grumpy or I'm grumpy. I'm almost 36wks pregnant. We need a day alone together before this baby gets here and really slows things down. Sorry guys. Just feeling lonely! πŸ˜”

⭐️ Asia ⭐️ K 1 like

Ugh.. U not alone. I have the same situation. I know exactly how u feel <hug>

Marissa D 1 like

I know EXACTLY how you feel! & I think you guys defiantly need a date night before baby comes. It's an exciting bonding experience & it's good to be relaxed & comfortable during your last few weeks being pregnant. Find time for each other! πŸ’•

Susan E 0 likes

Not alone. I hope you get your alone time soon!! Maybe plan an evening for just the 2 of you. Idk, I don't have a SO so it's hard to come up with ideas πŸ’‘ good luck!!

Mommy Of T 1 like

I wish i could miss my husband!. Sometimes i want him back in the Army so he can go on duty or training and we can have that time apart to miss each other. Ever since he got out hes is alllll up in my everything. Even outsiders have told us we need a break from each other cuz their hasnt been one in 4 years!!! Lol. But hang in there girl. Once baby gets here youll have ur hands so full ull not even realize how much hes working too. 😊

Raquel B 1 like

I know how you feel. Bc of my husbands crazy work schedule I sleep in the spare room so the monitor doesn't wake him up bc he's such a light sleeper and doesn't get enough sleep as it is. Sometimes I get so lonely sleeping alone not having him or my dog with me, and the baby in her room. πŸ˜”

L A 1 like

I felt like that before I had my son. Plan a babymoon for a few days or just an overnight stay somewhere. It will help. I had one planned with my husband, but my little one decided to come early.

Mommy O 1 like

I know how you feel! My husband works from 7a-5p then as night classes 6-9. It's not only hard on me but also our kids never get to see him. He is gone before they wake up and asleep by the time he gets home. 😒

Coryn P 1 like

Raquel, my husband works nights so when he's off he's up at night in the living room. We haven't slept in the same bed all night together in months. I asked my mom if she would come watch the baby for us Saturday or Sunday so we can get out. It's mucchhh needed.

Alicia C 1 like

We did a date night right before we out LO. We went an hour out of town stayed over night, had dinner/breaky walked around etc. It was nice :) we did however get the package for a shower gift - try groupon for some great deals.

Coryn P 0 likes

Mommy of Two, my hubs is in the military. I grew up a military brat so I'm used to the lifestyle. I'm okay with the drill weekends and the occasional school. But when he's just working and home every day and I still don't see him it makes it seem harder for some reason.

Coryn P 1 like

Alicia that would be lovely! But I'm scared to go out of town haha. I'd be okay with just the day, though.

Raquel B 1 like

Do it! I am actually sleeping in my room for a week starting Monday - it might feel like I'm away. Hahah. I told him we need his parents to stay with her for a few hrs so we can go see a movie I want. Fingers crossed we get some much needed alone time.

Coryn P 1 like

Ahh my mom said she will keep the baby for us. Yes! Now to plan our day <3

Kris L 1 like

Yea you guys should look into a baby moon

Kristen 1 like

You should definitely have a date night before new baby comes. Maybe dinner and a movie, just dinner, just you 2 for a little while!

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