I wonder what do you all think about surrogacy?! I won't get offended .. But I would like to know everyone's opinion.

Ashlynn C 1 like

I wanted to look into it because it's good money and you are helping someone out. I think it's perfect 😍

Isabella M 6 likes

I think it's a great thing for a woman to do! Unless they go like batshit crazy, like they do on LMN πŸ˜…

Surro M 1 like


Amber R 4 likes

I think it's beautiful that some women can allow people to have a baby, but with all the children available for adoption in the world it makes my heart hurt! Personally, I would never be able to do it. I grew that baby, nurtured it inside of me, birthed it, that's my baby and I just know that I would not be able to let go.

Surro M 2 likes

Am GC meaning the baby is not related to me at all. And I do get what you mean about adoptions.. I agree and believe in it.. The baby is not related to me at all.. Is not mines so I can't just keep someone else baby.. But you are right is something that is not for everyone that's why you go to counseling and various steps before you are even allow to carry someone else baby. Thank you for being honest.;)

Elizabeth . 1 like

You know how I feel surro 😍

Courtney β 5 likes

I think that it's a beautiful thing and there are many reasons as to why a couple would want a surrogate vs an adopted child , a big factor being health , you have a hands on experience with it unlike adoption where you know nothing of the mom most often until it's close to delivery time And surrogacy , done in a professional way is great ! Im all for helping give another woman something so precious , personally as stated above its not for me because Id get attached but go for it !

Surro M 3 likes

Thank you Elizabeth!! Not many get it, and is okay. Everyone is different and not everyone is able to do it . I wouldn't be able to give any of my kids for adoption. So I get it. But I am happy with my decision and I pray to God to protect me during the process. I just found out am pregnant today and am so excited.. I can't wait to tell the mom.. 😊

Surro M 3 likes

Courtney ... Totally get it and I agree with it. And I thank you for your comment..

Kathryn C 2 likes

I think it's awesome and I have a lot of respect for the women that do it. I know unless I was involved in the child's life I would find it hard and I wouldn't be able to do it. I'm sure the hormones wouldn't help. Your awesome for doing it! Kudos!

Elizabeth . 0 likes

You will make her so happy surro! And you will help bring a child into this world that was so desperately wanted and wished for! I wish you health and peace during your pregnancy, support and guidance from those around you who wish you well, and kindness from those who might not understand...πŸ˜ƒ

Surro M 1 like

Kathryn they asked us to be the babies GodParent and asked if I would be part of his life because they will thanks us for ever and once the baby to know we help give him life. That blew me away ... It made me more complete.. I honestly research this non stop and made sure it was the right decision. I am afraid and scared unsure of what.. Maybe the unknown.

Sarah K 1 like

I have considered it for a couple we know who are having a very hard time getting pregnant. But all said and done I don't think I could do it. I would get too attached.

Kathryn C 1 like

That is so awesome Surro!

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